The LGBT Foundation Community Safety team will be delivering some training to give people the tools if they, or someone they know, become a victim of hate crime. This training has been produced in association with Manchester City Council, and partner organisations including Manchester Pride and Sparkle.

Together we will talk through definitions and examples of hate crime and hate incidents, the various ways of reporting hate crime, as well as what to do if you witness one. The training will be interactive, and will start at 6.30pm, with time for refreshments and networking before and after.

We want to make these events as inclusive as possible and if you have any questions or access requirements please e-mail communitysafety@lgbt.foundation

Join us on Wednesday 13th November from 12 pm as we walk through the gorgeous Heaton Park.

Pop along for some fresh air and a chat. Don’t worry about the pace you walk at, it’s more about being out in nature together.

In a world that often tries to erase or marginalise our identities, nurturing queer joy becomes an act of resistance and self-care.  

So, let’s hold onto our joy fiercely and share it with one another by create spaces where all queer voices can thrive.

Are you looking for deeper connections in your life but not sure where to begin? We’ve got you!

You are warmly invited to our three-part talk series where we explore what it means to create deep connections in our life. We explore useful tools and tips that support you in demystifying your relationship to yourself, to others and to the world around you through nervous system regulation, communication exercises and embodiment practices. Come along to one, two, or all three of these FREE talks and discover more about yourself. 

Talk 3 – Connection to community and our world

Only one last chance to get involved with ‘The Connection Series’ – a collection of interactive talks exploring your relationship with self, others and the community, for LGBTQ+ adults. Don’t miss out on this final talk from our amazing facilitators Aj and Ria! No problem if you haven’t come to the previous talks – get involved in our final talk ‘Connection to Community and the World We Live In’

What would it mean to find your community or ‘tribe’? How would this support you in navigating your place in the world? Learn practical and transformative practices that facilitate a deeper connection to both your immediate community and the larger world around you.

Are you looking for deeper connections in your life but not sure where to begin? We’ve got you!

You are warmly invited to our three-part talk series where we explore what it means to create deep connections in our life. We explore useful tools and tips that support you in demystifying your relationship to yourself, to others and to the world around you through nervous system regulation, communication exercises and embodiment practices. Come along to one, two, or all three of these FREE talks and discover more about yourself. 

Talk 2 – Connection to others

Our amazing series of interactive talks – ‘The Connection Series’ – continues with its second session all about your connection to others

The wonderful Ria and Aj will explore the intricate web of relationships that shape our lives. Through this talk you can discover how to meet your needs authentically with family, friends, partners, and colleagues and explore the art of creating and maintaining connections while staying true to yourself.

By the end of this session, you’ll leave with a practical toolkit to create juicy connections with those around you.

Didn’t make it to the first talk? No problem! You are more than welcome to come along to this second talk which promises to be amazingly insightful! 

Loud and Queer! Join us for an electrifying evening that celebrates authenticity, creativity and community. Whether you’re a seasoned drag aficionado or first time reveller, this event promises to dazzle and delight. Our lineup features a constellation of stars and local talent. The Gorgeous Banksie, Star of Ru Paul’s Drag Race UK will be hosting an abundance of fierce queens and kings from the House of Nana which will leave you spellbound. DJ Ivy Profemme will be taking to the decks and providing chunky tunes to keep you dancing all night.

We believe that revelry doesn’t require alcohol. This event is a safe space those choosing sobriety, where you can connect, laugh and dance without inhibition.

Tickets are selling faster than glitter at a pride parade, so grab yours now! Let’s celebrate love, expression and the magic of being unapologetically queer

Donations accepted on door!

Join us on Saturday, February 10, 2024 (12pm-4pm) at the LGBT Foundation for Peers for Queers: Winter Wellbeing. This cozy event is designed to bring together LGBT individuals to make new friends, get invoved with activites, and enjoy some free brunch and hot drinks!

Throughout the day, you’ll have the opportunity to get involved with wellbeing activities, play board games with your peers, or just sit and chat! There will also be a film screening with free popcorn. A low sensory area will be provided. 

This event is free to attend, tickets are just for the purpose of numbers! Anybody aged 18+ is eligible to attend.

If you would like to start 2024 with new friends, and a new community, join us at Peers for Queers: Winter Wellbeing!

It’s December and the festive season is in the air!

We’re hosting a Festive Feast for LGBTQ+ people on the evening of Friday 22nd December at Fairbairn House, starting at 6pm. There will be a meal generously provided by VIA and some entertainment, along with the chance to have a lovely evening alongside other LGBTQ+ people! This is a dry event.

Places are limited so if you would like to attend please email community@lgbt.foundation with your name, any dietary requirements (eg vegan, vegetarian etc) or any food allergies, and any access needs.

Before we dive into this discussion, let me take a moment to shed light on the ethos of LGBT Foundation. Rooted in a passion for inclusivity and equality, we stand as a beacon of support for the LGBTQ+ community. Our commitment extends beyond advocacy; it’s a dedication to fostering a world where every individual, irrespective of their gender identity or sexual orientation, can live authentically and without fear and can live a life that is full of hope and joy.

Defining the Unseen Battles:

Gender-based violence is deeply entrenched in the roots of inequality, power imbalances, and societal norms that mercilessly affect individuals based on their gender identity. It’s a complex issue, one that reveals its ugly face in various forms within intimate partner relationships, transcending the boundaries of the gender spectrum. From physical violence to psychological abuse and everything in between, the intricacies of gender-based violence demand a comprehensive approach to dismantle its hold on society.

Facing the Harsh Realities in the UK:

Let’s delve into the numbers, the stark realities that linger behind closed doors. These statistics aren’t just cold figures; they represent the stories of real people. These statistics transcend mere data; they narrate the lived stories of individuals. A disconcerting one in four lesbian women and gay men has disclosed instances of domestic abuse from the age of 16. Save Lives underscores that bisexual women face an alarming likelihood—almost three times more than heterosexual women—of encountering various forms of domestic abuse. Additionally, domestic abuse affects over 50% more bisexual women than lesbians.

Furthermore, Galop’s recent Sexual Violence report unveils distressing figures from its LGBT+ survey respondents. A staggering 88% reported experiencing sexual harassment, while 77% faced sexual assault since turning 18. Notably, a significant majority (79% out of 755) of LGBTQ+ survivors indicated that the perpetrators of sexual violence were individuals known to them.

It’s not just about numbers; it’s about lives disrupted and voices silenced.

Becoming Architects of Change:

The call to action is both personal and collective. We want every individual to become an architect of change. It begins with awareness, challenging stereotypes, and providing unwavering support to survivors. Engage in workshops, contribute to online discussions, and share resources. Allies, your role is pivotal – amplify marginalised voices and champion policies that include everyone. Consider volunteering, attend training sessions, and stay informed; let’s collectively pave the way for change.

LGBT Foundation’s Guiding Hand:

Our commitment to supporting LGBTQ+ individuals facing domestic abuse and sexual violence is unwavering. As the manager of the team, we as team extend a personal invitation to those aged 16 and above in Greater Manchester who want to talk about domestic abuse to call our helpline (Telephone: 0345 3 30 30 30) or email us (dasupport@lgbt.foundation).

During these 16 Days of Activism, catch us in the community, spreading awareness and offering information about our LGBTQ+ Domestic Abuse and Sexual Violence support services.

Fostering Collaboration with Others:

Recognising that one size doesn’t fit all, we actively support organisations in developing LGBTQ+ specific or inclusive domestic abuse and sexual violence services. Collaboration is key. Let’s share knowledge, build safe spaces, and cater to the unique needs of the LGBTQ+ community. If you’re in the field across the UK, let’s connect, let’s build a network that addresses the challenges faced by survivors head-on.

Ways to be an Activist Against Gender-Based Violence:

Now, let’s delve deeper into actionable steps individuals and organisations can take to be effective activists against gender-based violence, fostering a community of support, empathy, and lasting change.

1. Community Engagement: Actively participate in local workshops and events focused on gender-based violence. These gatherings not only provide valuable insights but also create a space for dialogue, fostering a sense of community. By attending, you contribute to a collective effort to raise awareness, challenge stereotypes, and inspire change at the grassroots level.
2. Online Advocacy: Engage in online discussions to amplify the conversation surrounding gender-based violence. Utilise social media platforms, forums, and online communities to share information, personal experiences, and resources. By leveraging the power of the internet, you extend the reach of your advocacy, creating a digital space where diverse voices are heard and acknowledged.
3. Resource Sharing: Share resources widely to enhance awareness. Circulate informative articles, videos, and support materials within your networks. Educate others on the multifaceted nature of gender-based violence, encouraging open dialogue and understanding. By being a resource hub, you empower individuals to educate themselves and others, fostering a more informed and compassionate community.
4. Allyship and Amplification: Be an ally by actively supporting and amplifying the voices of those who are marginalised and underrepresented. Advocate for inclusivity in all spaces, ensuring that diverse perspectives are heard and valued. Through allyship, you contribute to creating an environment where survivors feel supported and empowered to share their stories, breaking the silence surrounding gender-based violence.
5. Advocacy for Inclusive Policies: Champion policies that are inclusive and sensitive to the diverse needs of all individuals. Advocate for the implementation of laws and regulations that address gender-based violence comprehensively, including provisions that protect LGBTQ+ individuals. Collaborate with local and national policymakers to influence positive change and ensure that the legal framework reflects the realities faced by all survivors.
6. Volunteering with Dedicated Organisations: Make a tangible impact by volunteering with organisations dedicated to combating gender-based violence. Offer your time and skills to support survivors, whether through helplines, outreach programs, or community events. Volunteering allows you to directly contribute to the well-being of those affected, fostering a sense of connection and solidarity within the activist community.
7. Continuous Education: Attend training sessions and workshops to continually educate yourself on the complexities of gender-based violence. Stay informed about evolving issues, emerging trends, and best practices in supporting survivors. By continuously educating yourself, you equip yourself with the necessary tools to be an effective advocate and ally.
8. Collaborative Partnerships: Form collaborative partnerships with other individuals and organisations. Strengthening alliances allows for the pooling of resources, knowledge, and expertise, creating a more robust and interconnected network dedicated to combating gender-based violence. Through collaboration, activists can share experiences and strategies, leading to more effective and sustainable initiatives.
9. Grassroots Initiatives: Initiate grassroots projects and campaigns within your community to address specific issues related to gender-based violence. These initiatives can range from awareness campaigns and educational programs to support groups and artistic expressions that highlight the impact of violence. Grassroots efforts have the power to create transformative change at the local level.

Let’s Talk, Let’s Act:

As we stand together during the 16 Days of Activism Against Gender-Based Violence, our call echoes with a personal touch. Engage in conversations, especially within the LGBTQ+ community. If you’re involved in this vital work across the UK, reach out to us at the LGBT Foundation. Let’s explore ways to develop your services and expand your knowledge. Together, let’s craft a world free from gender-based violence, where everyone can live authentically and without fear.

Closing Reflections:

For us, this isn’t just a campaign; it’s a journey, a shared experience. By understanding the intricacies of LGBTQ+ domestic abuse and sexual violence, actively advocating, and teaming up with organisations like ours, we’re steering towards a future where everyone, irrespective of their gender identity or sexual orientation, can break free from the chains of violence and fear. Let’s make it happen.

With heartfelt determination,

The Domestic Abuse and Sexual Violence Team LGBT Foundation

LGBT Foundation expresses deep disappointment regarding the recent announcement by the UK Health Secretary, which outlines the government’s intention to ban trans women from accessing female hospital wards. We firmly highlight the importance of safeguarding the privacy, dignity, and safety of all patients while upholding patient-centred, respectful, and flexible healthcare practices nationwide.

The decision made by the UK Government will have detrimental effects on the health and well-being of trans and non-binary individuals who already face barriers to accessing essential healthcare services. This decision will further discourage, or in some cases stop, trans and non-binary people from seeking care or openly discussing their gender identity and healthcare needs, ultimately leading to long-term health issues and an increased financial burden on an already under-pressure and under-resourced NHS.

Inclusive language has played a crucial role in dismantling barriers within the UK healthcare system in recent years, fostering an environment where trans and non-binary individuals feel more comfortable coming forward and discussing their healthcare needs. This leads to quicker and better life-saving healthcare interventions.

We urge the government to reconsider this decision and redirect their focus towards providing support and resources to the NHS to maintain its world-class, patient-centric, and freely accessible healthcare services for all.

LGBT Foundation remains dedicated to collaborating with allies across the health and wellbeing sector and the NHS to ensure that inclusive healthcare remains a reality for everyone.

Having safer sex and healthy relationships can be extremely difficult without comprehensive education and role models.

Thinking back to high school, most of us didn’t have any lessons that discussed it either.

When you think about it, you’re only 16 when you complete high school in the UK and that is an age where your life can change quickly and become overwhelming. All of a sudden, you feel the pressure to decide your next steps and without mind-body-soul education around what’s to come; how can we expect young people to fully support themselves and their decisions let alone other people?

When it comes to sexual health in 2023, across Greater Manchester you can access testing in-person and online where you can order a testing kit to do at home. For more information on testing with LGBT Foundation head to lgbt.foundation/testing. We always offer a well-being assessment with every type of test. It sounds very formal but it’s just what we call a few questions to help us understand your knowledge and how you’re doing. It’s a welcoming space for you to ask us anything about sexual health, relationships, substance use, kink, consent or chemsex and it gives you the opportunity to talk with someone in the team about things we think were probably missing from your sex and wellbeing education when growing up.

We’re confidential, we’re non-judgmental and we understand that sometimes you just need to talk with someone who gets it. When we’ve grown up in a world where we’ve been told that sex is dangerous, we need to look out for one another. Getting tested is taking control of your health overall and telling partner(s) about your sexual health first rather than asking about theirs’ is a great way to start a conversation about each other’s’ sexual health.

Let’s remember that we can learn all of the things that were missed out in education and that together, if we share our knowledge and look out for one another, we can end stigma and take control of our own sex lives.

To keep up-to-date with a sexual health tools, our website has a load of information on PEP, PrEP, U=U.

Also check out our Sex Guides and our frequently asked questions on mpox and vaccinations via PaSH. Don’t forget if you if you live in Greater Manchester or Liverpool you can order condoms and lube to your door, or pick up our safer sex packs in Manchester gay village venues.

There are lots of benefits to doing some self-exploration around the narratives, expectations and assumptions we give ourselves around sex. It’s more holistic work, but can have a huge impact on how we access sex and pleasure in the long run.

The suggestions below of some of the Team’s favourite reads, all very queer, all very different. Have a look and see if any seem up your street! The books below are all around the £9 – £15 mark, we’ve included social media links where relevant.

‘Sex Ed, A Guide for Adults’ by Ruby RareA stunningly (and erotically!) illustrated little book that is easy to flick through and jump in and out of. Pleasure-focused sex ed. that every adult could benefit from!

Find the author on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rubyrare/?hl=en

‘Mind the Gap, the Truth About Desire and How to Futureproof your Sex Life’ by Dr Karen GurneyWritten by a certified psychosexologist, this book has an intersectional approach to sex and sexuality. More of a ‘book!’ book, but got some brilliant exercises in it, prompting the reader to reflect on their ‘sex biography’ and gives tools for how to get the most from our sex lives going forward.

Find the author on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctor/?hl=en

‘Sexuality, a Graphic Guide’ by Meg-John Barker and Jules ScheeleA super cute graphic novel written with ‘compassion, humour and erudition’! It covers sex and sexuality in a really delightful way.

They also have some brilliant YouTube content it’s worth having a dig through: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC_6xGCzcMom6AwhlT…

‘Bang!: Masturbation for People of All Genders and Abilities’ by Vic Liu

A small yet mighty book that gets readers to reconsider their relationship with solo-sex and self-pleasure.

This book has its own Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bangforall/?hl=en

‘Queer Sex, A Trans and Non-Binary Guide to Intimacy, Pleasure and Relationships’ by Juno RocheA collection of interviews by Juno with various trans and non-binary individuals and couples. This book does and incredible job of allowing gender diverse individuals to speak about pleasure and sex candidly without being gratuitous. Hearing other people share their experiences can be an inspiring tool for self-reflection.

‘Oh Joy Sex Toy’ – website for reviews and advice

This is a home for a collection of short comics all linked to sex, sexuality, gender, and pleasure. Some are toy reviews, some are biographical, pornographic, fantastical, and educational, you name it!

Here’s the link to their intro page, which should give a good overview – https://www.ohjoysextoy.com/

‘Paired’ – App on Apple or Android

The free version of this app has some fun conversation starters, giving you one question or prompt to reflect on per day with your partner. Disclaimer that this app was clearly primarily designed for cis het, monogamous couples, but can still be a helpful conversation tool.

There are a few Facebook groups that talk about sexuality and have active communities that support each other with interesting conversation. If you use Facebook these groups could be useful for you. One is Lahlita’s Room, another is Vermilion you can search on Facebook for these.